What happened really in the collective psyche of this family? Well, from that fact, in the family ideology (in the CPU family), included an order that said: all forms of forbidden activities which have brought disgrace to this family. That order was very consistent at that time to cauterize the wound and prevent a repetition of history. It was an unwritten rule, which passed without criticism, from generation to generation. When he came to my patient, that order was entered in his unconscious (CPU), but no longer made sense, began acting dissociated from their right. The result of this internal struggle was the creation of a seemingly intractable conflict and the bearer of great suffering.
The first conclusion we can draw from this case is that beliefs must be brought to light so they can be ratified, rectified or enriched scientifically. If my grandfather was shot the Reds in the civil war, I hate it the reds, but if that belief is passed through the sieve of my current critique, I realize that the two sides became wild, and I should not generalize. In this case rectificare my belief. Another example is that of the man who had the belief that you should never lay a hand on a child, arguing that when he was small and was acting out, one look was enough to make him shake his father. He concluded that he was very proud of the father, because he never hit him. That man, he was given the information that sometimes those eyes could make the child think that when his father was not able to hold on, it could even kill him.